Hello everyone! Sorry I missed the party on Saturday, was in a cookie marathon and was not able to pull away. I understand Norma had a wonderful time.
I think she is getting bored at Mom's, she needs company, really bad. Just give a jingle before you visit to make sure Norma is home and not it therapy.
We have encouraged her to have her friends help her decorate her bedroom, it needs to be her room and feel comfortable, so........ It could even use a new color of paint.
Norma needs her visits just as much now as she did before, so please come over to see her. Thanks to those of you that have come, she really enjoys seeing her friends. She needs more stimulation than what Mom can give her.
All of you are very welcome to visit and stay as long as Norma has the energy.
Mom's address is 31098 Seneca Lane (located in the Maples, off of 14 mile near M-5 on the east or Novi road on the west.) The phone number is 248-668-9169
Karen-
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Monday, November 16, 2009
Norma's Move
Hello everyone:
Norma has moved from Danto to Doris Wolford's home. I do not know the visitation arrangements or have Doris'home phone number at this time. When Jim gives me this information, I will forward it to you.
Thank you,
Colleen
Norma has moved from Danto to Doris Wolford's home. I do not know the visitation arrangements or have Doris'home phone number at this time. When Jim gives me this information, I will forward it to you.
Thank you,
Colleen
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Norma, Mom & KimMay 2008
This is Kim, Norma's sister. I was honoured to be asked by Jim and Kevin to make a contribution to Norma's blog. I have found this blog to be a wonderful tool for all of us who care about Norma to be kept up to date on her progress as she works so hard to make a full recovery. It has touched me deeply to see the depth of love and care she is receiving from so many wonderful friends and family members. We should all be so blessed in our lifetimes.
Recently our family lost someone very dear to us. Our mom, Lorene, passed away on Monday, October 19th. She had been bravely living with Alzheimer's disease for many years. In the past week she began to decline and it was evident that her time was near. With the guidance and care of Hospice she was in peace and comfortable until the end.
At this time the family plans to have a memorial service for her at a later date.
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
News about the Brain
Hello,
Did any of you have the opportunity to watch CNN (Campbell Brown) last night (Tuesday)? The program was thought-provoking at the very least.; It was about several new, radical discoveries and corresponding theories about the brain. It was really interesting, especially with Norma in mind. Some of the older theories of the brain sustain the idea that the brain cannot grow new brain cells, but this theory is now disputed in light of some recent research. The testimony was impressive. Patients have made huge advancements after suffering severe strokes.
Edward Taub (the phonetic is correct, but I am not sure of the spelling), runs a radical brain therapy clinic at the University of Alabama-Birmingham. Many successful stories were broadcast. Another man named, Norman Doidge was also on the program who wrote a book titled, The Brain that Changes Itself. You can re watch it on CNN if you would like to watch the show. Maybe we can raise some money together and send Norma? Why not?
I visited Norma on Saturday. She now has a new roommate; a rather youthful woman who suffered a stroke during surgery for a tumor on her brain stem. She couldn't talk when she first arrived at Danto, but now she is able to communicate well; she is a good, positive model for Norma. Norma has successfully endured several weeks of deep emotional trauma, and she is doing better, so remember to write and call whenever you can. If you have any news that you would like to share with Norma's friends on Norma's blog, please e-mail me (or Jim, Chris or Kevin) Thanks.
Colleen
Did any of you have the opportunity to watch CNN (Campbell Brown) last night (Tuesday)? The program was thought-provoking at the very least.; It was about several new, radical discoveries and corresponding theories about the brain. It was really interesting, especially with Norma in mind. Some of the older theories of the brain sustain the idea that the brain cannot grow new brain cells, but this theory is now disputed in light of some recent research. The testimony was impressive. Patients have made huge advancements after suffering severe strokes.
Edward Taub (the phonetic is correct, but I am not sure of the spelling), runs a radical brain therapy clinic at the University of Alabama-Birmingham. Many successful stories were broadcast. Another man named, Norman Doidge was also on the program who wrote a book titled, The Brain that Changes Itself. You can re watch it on CNN if you would like to watch the show. Maybe we can raise some money together and send Norma? Why not?
I visited Norma on Saturday. She now has a new roommate; a rather youthful woman who suffered a stroke during surgery for a tumor on her brain stem. She couldn't talk when she first arrived at Danto, but now she is able to communicate well; she is a good, positive model for Norma. Norma has successfully endured several weeks of deep emotional trauma, and she is doing better, so remember to write and call whenever you can. If you have any news that you would like to share with Norma's friends on Norma's blog, please e-mail me (or Jim, Chris or Kevin) Thanks.
Colleen
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Hello . . .
Norma's new phone number at Danto is 248-788-7552. Give her a call. I am sure she would love to hear from you. Thanks.
Colleen
Colleen
Saturday, October 3, 2009
New Room Number
Hello . . .
Norma's new room number is #305 at Danto. Keep the cards, letters and visits coming because she needs all of us at this difficult time. Thank you so much!
Colleen
Norma's new room number is #305 at Danto. Keep the cards, letters and visits coming because she needs all of us at this difficult time. Thank you so much!
Colleen
Friday, October 2, 2009
Friday
Hello . . .
This evening, Norma moved from St. Joseph's back to Danto. Jim is not sure of the room number yet, but I will post it as soon as I know more. Norma now has a DVD player, so if you have a good movie you think she might enjoy, please bring it to her when you visit, okay. Norma is a courageous woman, to say the least, but this stroke is an enormous blow, one for which she must deal with day by day, so please continue to support her in love and friendship.
Thank you,
Colleen
This evening, Norma moved from St. Joseph's back to Danto. Jim is not sure of the room number yet, but I will post it as soon as I know more. Norma now has a DVD player, so if you have a good movie you think she might enjoy, please bring it to her when you visit, okay. Norma is a courageous woman, to say the least, but this stroke is an enormous blow, one for which she must deal with day by day, so please continue to support her in love and friendship.
Thank you,
Colleen
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
News of the operation
Hello everyone,
On behalf of Norma and Jim, thank you for all of the prayers and support. Norma's operation was successful. Her skull has been reattached. I spoke with Jim a few moments ago, and he said that Norma is resting comfortably, and although the surgery was quite painful Norma is enduring and doing better. Her Room number at St. Joseph's is #810, and she should be there for a few more days. Jim will know her phone number tomorrow, and I wil post it. Thank you.
Colleen
On behalf of Norma and Jim, thank you for all of the prayers and support. Norma's operation was successful. Her skull has been reattached. I spoke with Jim a few moments ago, and he said that Norma is resting comfortably, and although the surgery was quite painful Norma is enduring and doing better. Her Room number at St. Joseph's is #810, and she should be there for a few more days. Jim will know her phone number tomorrow, and I wil post it. Thank you.
Colleen
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Norma's Surgery
Hello everyone,
Yesterday Norma and her family visited her doctor at St. Joseph's. During this meeting, Norma's was given the information that she has been waiting to hear. She was told that her operation to have her skull reattached would be next week. I spoke with Jim this morning, and he gave me the date and time of the surgery, which is Wednesday, September 30th, around 8:30 a.m. At that time, Norma will have the operation to have her skull reattached, so please pray for her quick and safe recovery. Thank you.
Colleen
Yesterday Norma and her family visited her doctor at St. Joseph's. During this meeting, Norma's was given the information that she has been waiting to hear. She was told that her operation to have her skull reattached would be next week. I spoke with Jim this morning, and he gave me the date and time of the surgery, which is Wednesday, September 30th, around 8:30 a.m. At that time, Norma will have the operation to have her skull reattached, so please pray for her quick and safe recovery. Thank you.
Colleen
Friday, September 11, 2009
Update
Hello,
I visited Norma yesterday, and she was in therapy when I arrived, so I had the opportunity to observe some of the daily, rigorous training that her, and others at Danto, engage in on a daily basis. Norma seems brighter, more articulate, and she is generally enthusiastic about her improvement, but at the same time, she is also impatient to see more results from her hard work. Everyone at Danto seems to know her, and she seems to brighten the lives of those around her. As I said in the last update, she really has been through an enormous shock, and she has suffered tremendously, but she is very optimistic and hopeful for her future wellness.
Norma has a roommate now, who is an older, pleasant woman (91), but the better news is that the rather boisterous gentleman, who was in the room next to her, has moved, at least far enough away that Norma doesn't hear him any longer, or have to listen to his personal business. He may have had problems with his hearing, so I am not being disrespectful, but he was a bit unnerving even for the strongest of heart. Norma never complained about him, but I'm certainly glad he has found a new home. "Quiet . . . . "
Norma is anxious to leave Danto, to be well enough to take care of herself again, so keep encouraging her in whatever way you know how. If you have any general information or something new to report about Norma, and if you want it posted here for everyone to know, please send me an e-mail (or Jim or Kevin), and I will make sure that the information gets posted, okay?
Take care,
Colleen
I visited Norma yesterday, and she was in therapy when I arrived, so I had the opportunity to observe some of the daily, rigorous training that her, and others at Danto, engage in on a daily basis. Norma seems brighter, more articulate, and she is generally enthusiastic about her improvement, but at the same time, she is also impatient to see more results from her hard work. Everyone at Danto seems to know her, and she seems to brighten the lives of those around her. As I said in the last update, she really has been through an enormous shock, and she has suffered tremendously, but she is very optimistic and hopeful for her future wellness.
Norma has a roommate now, who is an older, pleasant woman (91), but the better news is that the rather boisterous gentleman, who was in the room next to her, has moved, at least far enough away that Norma doesn't hear him any longer, or have to listen to his personal business. He may have had problems with his hearing, so I am not being disrespectful, but he was a bit unnerving even for the strongest of heart. Norma never complained about him, but I'm certainly glad he has found a new home. "Quiet . . . . "
Norma is anxious to leave Danto, to be well enough to take care of herself again, so keep encouraging her in whatever way you know how. If you have any general information or something new to report about Norma, and if you want it posted here for everyone to know, please send me an e-mail (or Jim or Kevin), and I will make sure that the information gets posted, okay?
Take care,
Colleen
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Update on Norma
Hi everyone,
I visited Norma yesterday at Danto, and she is progressing slowly but surely. She moves her right leg more freely now, and she even walks with the help of a cane and a therapist, who supports her. She moves by herself from her wheelchair to her bed, which is a huge accomplishment. She studies her words and phrases diligently, and although Norma wants quicker results from her hard work, results such as clearer speech to express herself, she is progressing more and more each day.
As you know, the recovery from a stroke can be a slow process, but with the help of good friends and family, such as you, who visit Norma, keep her well-informed and comfortable, as well as the good doctors and therapists at Danto, who help her physically, and every one's prayers, Norma's recovery will proceed quicker, so keep up the good work everyone. Keep encouraging Norma with your thoughtful cards and kind words because she loves to hear from you and is trying so hard to get better.
Thank you so much for all of your responses to my last post. Norma now has comfortable pillows, a beautiful throw rug beside her bed, Jill Taylor's book on tape, beautiful flowers, new learning tools and other gifts that I probably haven't seen. Norma thanks you.
Love,
Colleen
I visited Norma yesterday at Danto, and she is progressing slowly but surely. She moves her right leg more freely now, and she even walks with the help of a cane and a therapist, who supports her. She moves by herself from her wheelchair to her bed, which is a huge accomplishment. She studies her words and phrases diligently, and although Norma wants quicker results from her hard work, results such as clearer speech to express herself, she is progressing more and more each day.
As you know, the recovery from a stroke can be a slow process, but with the help of good friends and family, such as you, who visit Norma, keep her well-informed and comfortable, as well as the good doctors and therapists at Danto, who help her physically, and every one's prayers, Norma's recovery will proceed quicker, so keep up the good work everyone. Keep encouraging Norma with your thoughtful cards and kind words because she loves to hear from you and is trying so hard to get better.
Thank you so much for all of your responses to my last post. Norma now has comfortable pillows, a beautiful throw rug beside her bed, Jill Taylor's book on tape, beautiful flowers, new learning tools and other gifts that I probably haven't seen. Norma thanks you.
Love,
Colleen
Monday, August 24, 2009
Hello
Hello everyone,
I am Colleen Klaus, a good friend of Norma's. Jim and Kevin were kind enough to give me the privilege of posting updates on Norma's blog, so I will occasionally write and let everyone know how she is doing.
I visited Norma on Friday at Danto, and she is is making the adjustment well. Because of Norma's great determination, she is a wonderful example of the power of the human spirit. I am encouraged when I leave her. I encourage everyone to visit Norma, and bring some flowers to cheer her up and to brighten up her room. When you are there, look around the room. Maybe there is something you can bring to add more personality and warmth to the room for Norma.
Norma has less therapy at Danto; therefore, she has more time on her hands, so if someone has a laptop computer to lend her, or something interesting for her to do, I think this would be helpful. Norma does not have a telephone right now, but she is getting a cell phone soon, so you will soon be able to call her, which is also important for her to talk and keep in touch.
Most importantly, keep praying for her. By the way, my e-mail address is cklaus1@hotmail.com if you would like to communicate with me for any reason. Thanks, and I'll be keeping in touch.
Colleen
I am Colleen Klaus, a good friend of Norma's. Jim and Kevin were kind enough to give me the privilege of posting updates on Norma's blog, so I will occasionally write and let everyone know how she is doing.
I visited Norma on Friday at Danto, and she is is making the adjustment well. Because of Norma's great determination, she is a wonderful example of the power of the human spirit. I am encouraged when I leave her. I encourage everyone to visit Norma, and bring some flowers to cheer her up and to brighten up her room. When you are there, look around the room. Maybe there is something you can bring to add more personality and warmth to the room for Norma.
Norma has less therapy at Danto; therefore, she has more time on her hands, so if someone has a laptop computer to lend her, or something interesting for her to do, I think this would be helpful. Norma does not have a telephone right now, but she is getting a cell phone soon, so you will soon be able to call her, which is also important for her to talk and keep in touch.
Most importantly, keep praying for her. By the way, my e-mail address is cklaus1@hotmail.com if you would like to communicate with me for any reason. Thanks, and I'll be keeping in touch.
Colleen
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Thursday, August 20
Well, after living at St. Joseph Mercy Hospital in Ann Arbor for two months, Norma has moved. She is now in what they call a sub-acute facility.
Her new address is:
Danto Health Care Center, Room 409
6800 W. Maple Road
West Bloomfield, MI 48322
This is quite a change for her, I think she will need lots of support and visitors right now.
The following link is to a map of where the center is located
http://national.citysearch.com/profile/map/5267020/west_bloomfield_mi/danto_health_care_ctr.html
K-
Her new address is:
Danto Health Care Center, Room 409
6800 W. Maple Road
West Bloomfield, MI 48322
This is quite a change for her, I think she will need lots of support and visitors right now.
The following link is to a map of where the center is located
http://national.citysearch.com/profile/map/5267020/west_bloomfield_mi/danto_health_care_ctr.html
K-
Wednesday, July 29, 2009
Tuesday, July 27
We had our second meeting with staff today. Prior to the meeting, we learned that Norma's brace goes on her foot before the shoe, the don't go on as a unit!
Norma is progressing in all areas, Yea!!
She needs to go for walks (strolls in the wheel chair) and be encouraged to view things on her right side as it will help her to center herself. There is lots of great art work through out the hospital that I am sure she would enjoy viewing.
We are encouraged to assist her with verbal skills. Imitation (repeating what you said) and oral reading is good. Enunciate clearly so that she can watch your lips as you pronounce words.
Picture/word association is another area to assist with as well as giving her choices..Is this an apple or banana...This is a water bottle, this is a book, what is this----- I hope you get the idea. The more practice she gets at these skills, the quicker her progress. Her speech therapist is wonderful...
If it is a nice day, take her out to the patio by the cafeteria. A nurse will help you get her into the wheel chair.
Kim & Brett, welcome to Ann Arbor.
K-
Norma is progressing in all areas, Yea!!
She needs to go for walks (strolls in the wheel chair) and be encouraged to view things on her right side as it will help her to center herself. There is lots of great art work through out the hospital that I am sure she would enjoy viewing.
We are encouraged to assist her with verbal skills. Imitation (repeating what you said) and oral reading is good. Enunciate clearly so that she can watch your lips as you pronounce words.
Picture/word association is another area to assist with as well as giving her choices..Is this an apple or banana...This is a water bottle, this is a book, what is this----- I hope you get the idea. The more practice she gets at these skills, the quicker her progress. Her speech therapist is wonderful...
If it is a nice day, take her out to the patio by the cafeteria. A nurse will help you get her into the wheel chair.
Kim & Brett, welcome to Ann Arbor.
K-
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Sunday, July 26
Norma continues to talk and communicate, asking many questions. When Kevin was there, they practiced spelling the names of the family with her alphabet tiles from Martha.
I brought her a box of words on 3x5 cards. She was very interested in reading the words. I thought maybe she could use them for communicating. We made a new card while Kev & I were there- Tigers! She was trying so hard to ask what time the game was on tv, we thought the card would help her with future games!!
The bathroom door is metal, so I got some magnets to put up pictures and other things that she wants to see from her chair. When you visit, check out the classic photo of the kids taken about 20 years ago.
Enjoy your visit with Norma!
K-
I brought her a box of words on 3x5 cards. She was very interested in reading the words. I thought maybe she could use them for communicating. We made a new card while Kev & I were there- Tigers! She was trying so hard to ask what time the game was on tv, we thought the card would help her with future games!!
The bathroom door is metal, so I got some magnets to put up pictures and other things that she wants to see from her chair. When you visit, check out the classic photo of the kids taken about 20 years ago.
Enjoy your visit with Norma!
K-
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Saturday, July 25
I tried to take a good picture of Norma without the feeding tube, but the lighting was very harsh. Will try to get one tomorrow, outside.
Norma has a new 4cd set of children's tunes, try to play some of the music while you visit.
Just fyi, Norma uses the word where to preface her questions. I was getting hung up on the word where, before realizing that was her start to a question, duh. So, if that helps you on a visit, great.
Susie, I read the most recent comments to Norma. She was thrilled to hear from you, she had me write out your message and we taped it to the wall...
Tuesday we have another family meeting (was originally scheduled for Monday). I/we will post any pertinent info after that meeting.
Hopefully we will get Norma outside tomorrow for some sunshine(?) and fresh air.
Again, please make sure to sign Norma's guest book when you visit. It helps her remember who came to visit. And, she does enjoy and appreciate her visits.
Kim & Brett, look forward to seeing you next (this) week.
K-
Norma has a new 4cd set of children's tunes, try to play some of the music while you visit.
Just fyi, Norma uses the word where to preface her questions. I was getting hung up on the word where, before realizing that was her start to a question, duh. So, if that helps you on a visit, great.
Susie, I read the most recent comments to Norma. She was thrilled to hear from you, she had me write out your message and we taped it to the wall...
Tuesday we have another family meeting (was originally scheduled for Monday). I/we will post any pertinent info after that meeting.
Hopefully we will get Norma outside tomorrow for some sunshine(?) and fresh air.
Again, please make sure to sign Norma's guest book when you visit. It helps her remember who came to visit. And, she does enjoy and appreciate her visits.
Kim & Brett, look forward to seeing you next (this) week.
K-
Thursday, July 23
This is a short one. Norma has had the feeding tube removed (will take a picture next time I am I visit), so eating is much easier.
Kim and Brett will be here next week, how exciting for Norma (and the rest of us)
Vocabulary continues to improve...
Go see for yourself
K-
Kim and Brett will be here next week, how exciting for Norma (and the rest of us)
Vocabulary continues to improve...
Go see for yourself
K-
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Tuesday, July 21
Well. I am back from the Rez (Pine Ridge, S. Dak) I had a very good time, not sure what went on with Norma, no blog entries (Hey Kev, what's up??)
Anyways, was so excited to see Norma. She can talk so much better than when I saw her on the 9th. Lots of new words and good communication.
She can make some deliberate movement in her right leg. For her physical therapy, she has a brace in her right shoe to help with the movement.
Jim said she can sing, as that function is on the right side of the brain, not the left. So, if you have any nursery rhymes on tape or cd she can use them to sing along.
I took my camera this evening to take a picture of her new hair cut, but the feeding tube is still connected. They are no longer feeding her with it and it should be removed in the next day or two. I will take a picture as soon as the tube is removed. (Janet you did a great job on her hair).
Karen & Richard(?) the flowers you brought are gorgeous.
Keep the cards and visits coming. Please make sure to sign her guest book.
I forgot to mention that I took my laptop so that Norma could read the comments on the Blog. She enjoyed them very much. :)
K-
Anyways, was so excited to see Norma. She can talk so much better than when I saw her on the 9th. Lots of new words and good communication.
She can make some deliberate movement in her right leg. For her physical therapy, she has a brace in her right shoe to help with the movement.
Jim said she can sing, as that function is on the right side of the brain, not the left. So, if you have any nursery rhymes on tape or cd she can use them to sing along.
I took my camera this evening to take a picture of her new hair cut, but the feeding tube is still connected. They are no longer feeding her with it and it should be removed in the next day or two. I will take a picture as soon as the tube is removed. (Janet you did a great job on her hair).
Karen & Richard(?) the flowers you brought are gorgeous.
Keep the cards and visits coming. Please make sure to sign her guest book.
I forgot to mention that I took my laptop so that Norma could read the comments on the Blog. She enjoyed them very much. :)
K-
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Thursday, July 9, 2009
Go Norma! It has been a week now since physical, occupational and speech therapy were started. Norma has made progress in all of those areas. She even has home work in speech, to practice words like Okay, Uh Huh. She has a piece of paper with her list to work on. Actually, you can talk to her on the phone now. She can respond with words/sounds rather than just the head shaking, too cool!
So, this evening was kind of like a girl's pajama party (sorry Paul).There was laughing and giggling. Janet, Susan, myself and Paul were there. Janet gave Norma a hair cut, it is short, maybe an inch in length. It looks so cute on her. It should be easy to take care of as well. I repainted and clipped her nails (she even let me paint her right hand).It was a fun hour or so.
Chris is in town, he got here on Tuesday. I am sure Norma is thrilled to have both of the boys here, at least from the looks on her face she appears to be.
The family met with all of the therapists and doctor today. We were encouraged to attend her therapy sessions and give her as much stimulation as we can. She will most likely be on the 4th floor rehab for 4-6 weeks.
Kevin & Chris I am going away for a week, so get some info on this blog while I am gone.
Paul, Janet & Susan it was soooooo good to see all of you this evening.
K-
So, this evening was kind of like a girl's pajama party (sorry Paul).There was laughing and giggling. Janet, Susan, myself and Paul were there. Janet gave Norma a hair cut, it is short, maybe an inch in length. It looks so cute on her. It should be easy to take care of as well. I repainted and clipped her nails (she even let me paint her right hand).It was a fun hour or so.
Chris is in town, he got here on Tuesday. I am sure Norma is thrilled to have both of the boys here, at least from the looks on her face she appears to be.
The family met with all of the therapists and doctor today. We were encouraged to attend her therapy sessions and give her as much stimulation as we can. She will most likely be on the 4th floor rehab for 4-6 weeks.
Kevin & Chris I am going away for a week, so get some info on this blog while I am gone.
Paul, Janet & Susan it was soooooo good to see all of you this evening.
K-
Friday, July 3, 2009
Thursday 7/2
Elvis has entered the building. Room 430 is now complete.
Just as a note, with my Mom having therapy in the morning through the afternoon, the best visiting hours for her are 5pm to 8pm.
My mom has now had nearly a full week of physical therapy, and she is doing very well. It has been quite tiring on her, but she is fighting through. Her appetite has been getting better, and she has been able to eat some food from home. Me and my dad have been visiting her at night and listening to music with her (We brought a boom box in a few days ago). Wednesday night was Steve Earle and Thursday night was Bruce Springsteen. The music seems to provide her with a way to relax and get away for at least a short period of time.
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Wednesday 7/1
Here is the complete address for Norma
Norma Wolford
c/o St. Joseph Mercy Hospital
room 430
5301 E Huron River Dr
Ann Arbor, MI 48106
734-712-4631.
Norma Wolford
c/o St. Joseph Mercy Hospital
room 430
5301 E Huron River Dr
Ann Arbor, MI 48106
734-712-4631.
Tuesday, June 30, 2009
Tuesday 6/30
Norma in Pink! Yesterday afternoon, Norma was moved to the Rehab floor, she is in room 430 phone 734-712-4631.
Norma had her first round of therapy and gets to wear a pink helmet to keep her safe in the event of a fall. I think someone needs to find an Elvis sticker to put on it.
This room should be permanent until she is released from the hospital. Oh, she is wearing people clothes now too!! She looks much more comfortable. I will be bringing her some yogurt tonight as we can bring in foods for her that she might like better than what is being served.They will label it and put in the fridge. Until she is eating more, she will continue to need the feeding tube.
Very soon we can put her in a wheelchair and take her outside to get some fresh air (needless to say she is very excited about that). I guess there is a very nice patio off of the cafeteria that has easy access. Later on, she will be able to have 1/2 day out of the hospital visits.
Therapy is in the morning and afternoon, so my lunchtime visits will most likely stop. The nurse said the best time to visit is in the evening. I had a nice long chat with the nurse, Marlyse, very nice person. I am sure she and Norma will get along quite well.
The flowers continue to come in. Andy, Norma said thanks for the orchid and a big thanks to Janet and Paul for their visit last night.
Here is a poor picture of her flowers and Jim modeling her pink helmet.
Monday, June 29, 2009
Monday 6/29
Visited Norma around lunchtime, found her sittting up in a chair. I brought the requested People magazine, much to her delight!
Norma got to read part of the blog and the comments, I think she was very touched by the comments all of you have been adding, keep them coming.
Gave her a new coat of nail polish and helped her with some applesauce.
The Tech thought Norma would be moved to the Rehab floor (4th) sometime today, lets keep our fingers crossed.
Norma continues to look better and gain more strength every day. I know she is wondering why this happened. Despite the fact that she is unable to talk, I still feel like we have a 2-sided conversation.
Love ya Norma.
K-
Norma got to read part of the blog and the comments, I think she was very touched by the comments all of you have been adding, keep them coming.
Gave her a new coat of nail polish and helped her with some applesauce.
The Tech thought Norma would be moved to the Rehab floor (4th) sometime today, lets keep our fingers crossed.
Norma continues to look better and gain more strength every day. I know she is wondering why this happened. Despite the fact that she is unable to talk, I still feel like we have a 2-sided conversation.
Love ya Norma.
K-
Sunday, June 28, 2009
Saturday 6/27 - Sunday 6/28
So, I went to a wedding in Vermilion, Ohio had a wonderful time. I wonder what Norma did on Saturday???
K-
It was a very busy weekend for my mom, as she had many visitors. I would list them all, but I'm certain I'd leave somebody out.
She has received some more very nice flowers. I would like to specifically thank Sue Brandon for all of the wonderful gifts she brought. I know that meant quite a bit to my mom. A picture will be up soon.
Jim spent Saturday night at the hospital and we were both there for parts of Saturday and Sunday. My mom looks ready to move onto the next stage of recovery. Hopefully, she will be moved to the 4th floor on Monday, at which time she would began physical and speech therapy. The doctor will meet with her most likely Monday morning to determine if she is able to do so.
- Kevin
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It was a very busy weekend for my mom, as she had many visitors. I would list them all, but I'm certain I'd leave somebody out.
She has received some more very nice flowers. I would like to specifically thank Sue Brandon for all of the wonderful gifts she brought. I know that meant quite a bit to my mom. A picture will be up soon.
Jim spent Saturday night at the hospital and we were both there for parts of Saturday and Sunday. My mom looks ready to move onto the next stage of recovery. Hopefully, she will be moved to the 4th floor on Monday, at which time she would began physical and speech therapy. The doctor will meet with her most likely Monday morning to determine if she is able to do so.
- Kevin
Friday, June 26, 2009
Friday, 6/26
My Mom's hospital room is turning into a mini-botanical garden, as evidenced by above right pick. The quilt was kindly sent by the Colletes.
Me and my dad visited my mom today in the late afternoon. She was pretty sleepy the entire time we were there. However, we were bile to get a few laughs and smiles out of her when she wasn't dozed off. She is certainly improving from day to day. Her emotional recovery this past week is very encouraging.
by Kevin
I want to say thanks for all the nice flowers that you have sent Norma. The room smells so nice. Norma gets a big smile on her face when she looks at the flowers. I also want to say thanks to everyone for sending all your prayers for Norma's recovery.
Norma and I met with the social worker (Brenda) at the hospital today. It looks like on Monday she could begin the physical therapy. We are hoping that Norma can do the physical therapy in the hospital. It is located on the 4th floor. It is a 3 hour a day therapy and would last for approximately 3 weeks. The Doctors want to make sure that the patients are able to handle that amount of daily therapy. She will be meeting with one of the doctors tommorrow. Brenda said that Norma would be a good candidate because she is young and in good physical shape. I was given a list of skilled nursing facilities in the area as a back-up plan.
by Jim
Thursday, June 25, 2009
Thursday
Room 821 East will Norma's new home for a few days. 734.712.4897. If you call after 7pm there will most likely be someone there with her to answer the phone. I am sure she would love to hear your voice.
Norma's finger nails now have 2 coats of baby pink nail polish. They look very nice....
Still no food, just a cocktail of colace, vitamins and meds added to her feeding tube.
But..... Shower Time at 12:30!!!! It has been 6 days, Norma seemed very excited at the announcement by the nurse.
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P.S. I forgot to add that the 8th floor is for stroke patients. All nurses have to be "stroke" certified by taking a year and a half training.
Norma's finger nails now have 2 coats of baby pink nail polish. They look very nice....
Still no food, just a cocktail of colace, vitamins and meds added to her feeding tube.
But..... Shower Time at 12:30!!!! It has been 6 days, Norma seemed very excited at the announcement by the nurse.
K-
P.S. I forgot to add that the 8th floor is for stroke patients. All nurses have to be "stroke" certified by taking a year and a half training.
Wednesday
Went to see Norma during my lunchtime (still in room 2072). When I got there, she had been put in the lazy boy chair next to the bed. She didn't look very comfortable, so I asked the tech to adjust her and the pillows and we got her looking good. Her eye area is quite swollen and it seems to bother her, as she rubs it quite a bit.
Flowers from Dar! I pulled the note off and she took it and read the note. So nice to see her reading. I had noticed that she has been looking at her nails quite a bit. Asked if she would like them painted and got a great big smile...
Evening-
Norma is back at 8East (the new tower, where she was pre-surgery). Her hair had been washed since lunchtime, the tube had been removed from her head and the swelling around her eye is all gone. She looks the best I have seen. Jim and I stayed for a couple of hours. She is quite tired so we left early.
Flowers from Dar! I pulled the note off and she took it and read the note. So nice to see her reading. I had noticed that she has been looking at her nails quite a bit. Asked if she would like them painted and got a great big smile...
Evening-
Norma is back at 8East (the new tower, where she was pre-surgery). Her hair had been washed since lunchtime, the tube had been removed from her head and the swelling around her eye is all gone. She looks the best I have seen. Jim and I stayed for a couple of hours. She is quite tired so we left early.
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Tuesday
Norma was moved in to room 2072 today. She was just waking up as I arrived,greeting me with sounds that she had not made before.
As I was putting up the decorations that she has managed to accumulate, I realized that she had not seen one of the cards. Norma took it from my hand, read the outside then opened it up and read the greeting inside. This was the first time that she showed any interest in reading, how exciting.
I noticed that Janet and Paul left a long note taped to a bottle on her tray. I pulled it off and handed it to her she read the entire page and seemed to understand everything they wrote....
I asked if she would like me to bring some magazines tomorrow, she nodded yes.
I questioned her about the surgery and she nodded that she remembered and understood. I shared some of the information I was able to find on the internet with her.
Jim and Kevin arrived a little later, which is when we created this blog (Kevin's idea and guidance). We stayed until 10pm
Norma had a slight temperature today and they had to give her insulin due to her high blood sugar. Probably a result of the liquid given through the feeding tube. She was taken off of the self dosing pain pump and switched to tylenol with codeine as needed.
Nurse Megan and the tech (sorry, I don't remember her name) were so nice and caring. The staff continues to provide great care to our special Norma.
Karen
As I was putting up the decorations that she has managed to accumulate, I realized that she had not seen one of the cards. Norma took it from my hand, read the outside then opened it up and read the greeting inside. This was the first time that she showed any interest in reading, how exciting.
I noticed that Janet and Paul left a long note taped to a bottle on her tray. I pulled it off and handed it to her she read the entire page and seemed to understand everything they wrote....
I asked if she would like me to bring some magazines tomorrow, she nodded yes.
I questioned her about the surgery and she nodded that she remembered and understood. I shared some of the information I was able to find on the internet with her.
Jim and Kevin arrived a little later, which is when we created this blog (Kevin's idea and guidance). We stayed until 10pm
Norma had a slight temperature today and they had to give her insulin due to her high blood sugar. Probably a result of the liquid given through the feeding tube. She was taken off of the self dosing pain pump and switched to tylenol with codeine as needed.
Nurse Megan and the tech (sorry, I don't remember her name) were so nice and caring. The staff continues to provide great care to our special Norma.
Karen
Monday
Jim got a call at 8am for the hospital, Norma needed to have surgery to relieve the pressure from the swelling of her brain. Surgery was scheduled for 1pm. Dr. Buckingham told us that the CAT scan from Saturday showed significant swelling of her brain, and it was only the third day. Normally the swelling peaks on the 7th. Sounded like this was the right thing to do. The surgery is called Decompressive Craniectomy and lasts a little over an hour. A piece of the skull is removed to provide space for brain expansion. This reduces the change of brain damage. The piece of skull is put under the skin in the abdomen to keep it viable for the 1-3 months until it is replaced.
Surgery went well. We got to see her in recovery a couple of hours after the surgery was over. She was out of it, as she should be. Jim and I left then as they wanted to keep her quiet with no stimulation so that they would not need meds to keep her blood pressure steady.
Sweet dreams Norma.
Karen
Surgery went well. We got to see her in recovery a couple of hours after the surgery was over. She was out of it, as she should be. Jim and I left then as they wanted to keep her quiet with no stimulation so that they would not need meds to keep her blood pressure steady.
Sweet dreams Norma.
Karen
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Sunday (6/21)
Father's Day
Jim and Kevin were here first thing in the morning. Then around 6pm the Wolford clan arrived. They finished dinner at Karen's house (saving dessert for after the visit).
Norma had a big smile for all of us, as she seemed to recognize all of us. She kept smiling at Mom. They put a feeding tube in her nose, but it was not yet hooked up to anything. A bit later, dinner was brought in to her. We all jumped, that's not hers, she can't eat food .... Alas, we were wrong, they were starting her on a "swallow" therapy. She had to have another person with her, be sitting totally upright and only a sip at a time. Unfortunately, it appeared to be the typical "hospital" food. Kevin fed his Mom several bites of mashed potatoes and some sips of apple juice. Real food, YEA!!!!
After she finished her dinner, they hooked the feeding tube up to a bag with liquid that resembled baby formula. This way, she would get the nutrition she needed and any extra calories that she might consume.
Still no word on the CAT scan they took the night before. We stayed about 20 minutes or so then left to have brownies and ice cream at home.
Jim and Kevin made a stop back after dessert.
Karen
Jim and Kevin were here first thing in the morning. Then around 6pm the Wolford clan arrived. They finished dinner at Karen's house (saving dessert for after the visit).
Norma had a big smile for all of us, as she seemed to recognize all of us. She kept smiling at Mom. They put a feeding tube in her nose, but it was not yet hooked up to anything. A bit later, dinner was brought in to her. We all jumped, that's not hers, she can't eat food .... Alas, we were wrong, they were starting her on a "swallow" therapy. She had to have another person with her, be sitting totally upright and only a sip at a time. Unfortunately, it appeared to be the typical "hospital" food. Kevin fed his Mom several bites of mashed potatoes and some sips of apple juice. Real food, YEA!!!!
After she finished her dinner, they hooked the feeding tube up to a bag with liquid that resembled baby formula. This way, she would get the nutrition she needed and any extra calories that she might consume.
Still no word on the CAT scan they took the night before. We stayed about 20 minutes or so then left to have brownies and ice cream at home.
Jim and Kevin made a stop back after dessert.
Karen
Saturday (6/20)
Tests, tests, tests. First thing Saturday morning Norma was taken to another part of the hospital for tests on her carotid, heart and stomach (as Jim tells me, I wasn't there yet).
Around 10 am the occupational therapist and Dr. Kachman gave Norma tests to assess her physical status. They checked for eye movement/tracking, arm and leg strength, swallowing and some other things that I don't remember.
It was after this set of tests that it was determined that she could sip water and eat ice cream.
Janet and Paul came and brought decorations for the room. A great carribean like poster and one with 9 puppies on a couch. And, three butterflies and a blue stringy fish thing. It really made the room more cheerful, Norma seemed to enjoy looking at them.
Jim finally went home to shower and contact family and friends. I kept Norma company for the next several hours. She was very alert and would nod to my questions. We watched tv, the Travel Channel until she handed me the changer, I guess she had enough of China, she obviously did not like what I was watching!! We watched a bit of sports then she handed me the changer once again.....
Norma ate some ice cream, put up her hand in the stop mode when she had enough. All things told, she seemed to be very alert, was doing a good job communicating and was very sleepy. She was awake about 10 minutes every hour then would doze off. The staff treated her with great care.
At 8 p.m. she was taken downstairs for a CAT Scan of the left side of her brain to investigate.
by Karen
Mom began to show signs of improvement on this day. She seemed to be a little more aware of her surroundings. Most importantly, she was smiling some and tried her best to get a few laughs out.
by Kevin
Around 10 am the occupational therapist and Dr. Kachman gave Norma tests to assess her physical status. They checked for eye movement/tracking, arm and leg strength, swallowing and some other things that I don't remember.
It was after this set of tests that it was determined that she could sip water and eat ice cream.
Janet and Paul came and brought decorations for the room. A great carribean like poster and one with 9 puppies on a couch. And, three butterflies and a blue stringy fish thing. It really made the room more cheerful, Norma seemed to enjoy looking at them.
Jim finally went home to shower and contact family and friends. I kept Norma company for the next several hours. She was very alert and would nod to my questions. We watched tv, the Travel Channel until she handed me the changer, I guess she had enough of China, she obviously did not like what I was watching!! We watched a bit of sports then she handed me the changer once again.....
Norma ate some ice cream, put up her hand in the stop mode when she had enough. All things told, she seemed to be very alert, was doing a good job communicating and was very sleepy. She was awake about 10 minutes every hour then would doze off. The staff treated her with great care.
At 8 p.m. she was taken downstairs for a CAT Scan of the left side of her brain to investigate.
by Karen
Mom began to show signs of improvement on this day. She seemed to be a little more aware of her surroundings. Most importantly, she was smiling some and tried her best to get a few laughs out.
by Kevin
Friday (6/19)
The journey began on Friday, June 19, 2009. While getting ready for work, Norma suffered a stroke on the left side of her brain. She was brought to the Emergency room at St. Joseph Mercy Hospital in Ann Arbor afternoon.
When I arrived at the ER at 7pm, I found Jim, Kevin and Norma. She did not look well, but put up with stories and updates on the kids. She seemed cognizant of her surroundings, but was unable to move the right side of her body. She was able to get a "ohhh" and an "aahh" out as well as attempt to smile and laugh.
At 8pm, while I was updating Mom on her status, she was moved to the 8th floor. Fortunately I was able to find them shortly there after. Her room was very nice with a great view overlooking Ann Arbor to the north.
Needless to say Norma was very tired, snoozing between pokes and prods.
by Karen Jania Wolford
I spent the night with Norma in her room. The staff was seeing her every hour to check on her vitals. The doctors and nurses are super at this hospital.
by Jim Wolford
Thank you so very much to Paul Bezaire and Janet Wilson for getting her to the emergency room and they're constant love and support through this process.
by Kevin Wolford
When I arrived at the ER at 7pm, I found Jim, Kevin and Norma. She did not look well, but put up with stories and updates on the kids. She seemed cognizant of her surroundings, but was unable to move the right side of her body. She was able to get a "ohhh" and an "aahh" out as well as attempt to smile and laugh.
At 8pm, while I was updating Mom on her status, she was moved to the 8th floor. Fortunately I was able to find them shortly there after. Her room was very nice with a great view overlooking Ann Arbor to the north.
Needless to say Norma was very tired, snoozing between pokes and prods.
by Karen Jania Wolford
I spent the night with Norma in her room. The staff was seeing her every hour to check on her vitals. The doctors and nurses are super at this hospital.
by Jim Wolford
Thank you so very much to Paul Bezaire and Janet Wilson for getting her to the emergency room and they're constant love and support through this process.
by Kevin Wolford
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